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anger

Parents side

Along with fear, joy and sadness, anger is one of the 4 great human emotions. Each of them serves to express something. And none should remain imprisoned at the risk, one day, of overwhelming us.

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When we are the victims of something, and even more when we are powerless to prevent the harm done to us, we are bound to be angry. And children are no exception to this rule.

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Because, in addition to the feeling of helplessness, there is also in us this immense injustice of having been a victim. Not to mention the suffering, often invisible, that we must hide from the eyes of others. Because they wouldn't understand. Or that they wouldn't believe us. And what could they do? So many uncertainties that anger child victims.

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These anger sometimes overwhelm them. If he has not yet released his word to you, your child's anger should alert you. This often sudden and uncontrollable anger for trivial things that do not deserve these outbursts is not trivial.

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She expresses something. She tells you about an injustice of which your child is a victim. Understand there. Hear it but never try to contain it. Whether your child has spoken to you or not, let that anger come out of him. It is also helping it to rebuild better.

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Anger that we contain always ends up coming out. It will take years. She will be draped with the seal of resentment. It will turn into hate. But she will always come out eventually. It will hurt people who don't deserve it. It will harm your own children. Anger, which is often the counterpart of silence, is destructive. It suffocates those who wear it.

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Learn from his anger. Set boundaries with your child. But allow him today to let her come out of him so that tomorrow she does not overwhelm him. Again and again, the key remains dialogue, to the rhythm of your child, on the paths where he himself wants to take you.

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You are great parents, never forget that. You are not responsible for the harm done to him. And you are there, today, by its side, to support it in its reconstruction. With your hand in his, he can only appease his anger.